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Jacqueline Pawlyszyn
My precious gift of life
Organ donation and transplantation is truly one
of the greatest miracles of modern medicine and
surgery. But you don’t realize how special this
most precious “Gift of Life” is until you or
your family, or someone you know has experienced
such a miraculous new lease on life. My name is
Jacqueline, “Jacquie” most of the time, and I’m
fortunate to be one of those organ recipients to
have been given a second chance because of a
young woman’s extreme generosity and
thoughtfulness.
I’m 67 years old, always fortunate to enjoy good
health other than the usual childhood diseases,
colds and bouts of bronchitis. I married Fred in
1960 raising three daughters, enjoying the
outdoors and helping with the farm duties, my
favourite job – hauling grain. I always thought
I was the proverbial “Iron Horse”, so when I
walked into emergency gasping for air on August
22, 1988, my life was to change drastically. I
was diagnosed with congestive heart failure with
a 16% ejection fraction and considered a
borderline heart transplant. Three weeks in
hospital, on telemetry and after a lot of tests,
an angiogram indicated that I had Left
Ventricular Cardiomyopathy when an undetected
virus caused damaged to the left ventricle.
I changed my lifestyle, pacing myself and
surpassed my cardiologist’s prediction “that in
5 years I’d stay the same, get better or get
worse”; however, in my 6th year I was showing
signs of failure and my cardiologist suggested
it was time to consult his colleagues regarding
transplantation. After my rigorous 2-week
assessment, the cardiac team informed me that I
had “6 months to 1 year to live”. After a
2-month wait including two dry runs, I received
that most important call and had my surgery
early next morning. I remained in hospital for
25 days. Finally, after a 3-month stay, I was
able to return home. I had the all clear “No
Rejection”.
A year later, by chance, I discovered something
special regarding my organ donor. I was indeed a
DOMINO TRANSPLANT, meaning that I had a living
donor. I called the young woman and not knowing
I would call us the “Bobbsey Twins”, so amid
great emotion I told her she must be responsible
for my generous gift of life. Now we make our
annual health evaluations at the same place.
Although a few years have passed, our meetings
are still very emotional and we can reminisce
about our miraculous experience. We usually try
to celebrate her birthday and our good health by
dining out at a favourite restaurant.
Domino heart transplants are performed
frequently in Great Britain and the United States. So far I haven’t been
able to locate any in
Canada. With
there being a shortage of organ donations, often
when a patient receives a double lung and heart
transplant, that patient’s own heart may still
be healthy for another recipient.
There aren’t enough words to express my
gratefulness to my donor for her most precious
“Gift of Life”, for her extreme generosity has
given me a second chance. We celebrated our 45th
wedding anniversary in 2005 and my 67th birthday
this year. I’m able to be independent, enjoy
gardening, and canning. “These little things
mean a lot!” I enjoy our trips out West to visit
our two daughters. Best of all, Fred has taught
me the enjoyment of fishing. I can even reel in
the elusive Master Angler Walleye! I’m grateful
to enjoy my three special angels, my beautiful
granddaughters Kaylee (13), Cassandra (12) and
newborn baby Skylar.
In closing, I would like to dedicate my story to
my very dear donor, another special angel; my
husband Fred for all his care and support and
just for being there; Kelly, Kaylee, Brenda,
Sandra, Brent and Cassandra, my relatives and
friends, for all their support during a very
difficult time.
Special gratitude and deepest appreciation to
everyone who cared for me at London Health
Sciences Centre – for all their kindness and
treating us like family. Also, a special thanks
to the Sisters of Mount St. Joseph.
Everyone’s kindness will
never be forgotten. You will ALL have a SPECIAL
PLACE IN MY HEART!
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